Be prepared to make decisions. If the person you're going on a date with asks you about where you want to hang out, don't be afraid to voice your opinion. Most likely, in this way he shows attention to you, offering to make his choice. Show that you can make decisions.

Choose an activity during which you can interact with a person. For example, watching a movie together is not a good idea because you won't have the opportunity to get to know the person better. Have a cup of coffee together or visit a museum. Make time for communication.

Be punctual. Being late means that you do not value time and the person you made wait. Therefore, arrive on your date on time or a little earlier than the appointed time.

Don't be indifferent. If you show indifference or indifference, you are unlikely to develop a close relationship with the person. Just be yourself. Don't be afraid to show emotions.

• For example, if a person invites you to the cinema, you should not limit yourself to just the following phrase: “I liked this movie.” Don't be afraid to show your enthusiasm. You can say: "I really liked this movie! The main character in the movie was amazing!"

A first date is one of the most exciting events in a girl's life. Especially if it's a meeting with the man of your dreams. It's no secret that the beauty of a first date is that it will never happen again. That is why girls prepare so carefully for it, are nervous and dream that everything will go perfectly.

To be on top on this fateful evening and conquer her chosen one, the girl must think through everything to the smallest detail. And this applies not only to clothing and jewelry, but also to manners of communication and etiquette.

The first impression will play a huge role in the development of subsequent relationships. Therefore, before going on a date, you need to have a positive attitude and try to please your chosen one not only externally, although this is very important, but also internally, to be an interesting conversationalist and a confident person.

There is no need to be afraid of everything and try to please your chosen one in everything; as a rule, such behavior has a negative effect. Remember! A man likes to be a conqueror and a hunter.

Relax, imagine all possible options for developing your date. Mentally prepare for the fact that your second meeting may not happen. Try to behave naturally and relaxed. After all, body language and gestures are the most powerful weapon in a woman’s hands. But only its correct use can defeat and forever bind a man captivated by your beauty to you.

Meeting point

What to do if the long-awaited moment has arrived and a man invites you on a first date? Choose if it was not suggested by your partner.

When making a choice, you should first of all think about whether it will be affordable for your chosen one. After all, it may turn out that, having once treated you to a collection of wine, he decides to find a lady of his heart with more modest requests, which he can satisfy without much difficulty and not lose face.

If the place is chosen by a man, and you are invited to a luxury restaurant, first of all you need to take into account the laws of expensive service. In such an environment, when a person becomes part of the system and behaves the same way as everyone else around him - prim and arrogant, it is very difficult to establish relationships and understand what kind of person is sitting next to you.

Uncomfortable atmosphere

If the date takes place in a coffee shop with many small tables, loud music and children's screams, it will simply be impossible to tune in to each other. Therefore, when choosing a place, you should think in advance whether you will have the opportunity to create a shared personal space where no one will interfere.

When the space is organized, it is important for a woman to sit correctly at the table. If this is your first date with a man, the psychologist’s advice can be extremely contradictory. For example, some believe that a woman should sit to the side of a man, at a ninety-degree angle, while others insist that partners should sit opposite each other. Many women deliberately avoid the second option, finding it more intimate and suitable for those who have known each other for a long time and consider a date only a formality.

Choosing an activity

What to do on a romantic evening, since conversations can quickly become boring, and sitting in silence is not a good idea for those who want to continue the relationship? Find out in advance what the person is interested in. Try to write down what he enjoys in his free time. And then, if there is an awkward pause, you can always fill it with conversations about your favorite movie or book. Discuss possible options for your next dates, suggest something unusual. For example, a picnic in the forest or kayaking. Listen to the wishes of your chosen one. Perhaps, without realizing it, he will give you an idea.

Girl behavior

So, are you on your first date to get him to like you? It is very important to behave naturally and openly. If you really want this relationship, and you didn't go on a date out of boredom, give up the hypocrisy and the desire to embellish your life. After all, sooner or later a man will find out the truth, and you will have a reputation as a fib or even a liar.

While working on yourself, do not forget to look at the behavior of your gentleman. Pushy, arrogant, or vulgar behavior suggests that his intentions towards you are not serious and he is only motivated by the desire to spend a night with you without commitment. In this case, the decision is up to you. If you want to conquer an insolent person, surprise him. If you don’t want to become one of his numerous list of mistresses, run, don’t pick up the phone and don’t make a second date, don’t be afraid to refuse.

Greeted by clothes

Choosing an outfit for a first date, and not making him run away in horror or ashamed of his passion? Every girl asked herself this question at least once in her life.

You need to start preparing for the event in advance. It is especially important a few days before a romantic evening to go to bed as early as possible to get rid of dark circles under the eyes. If the meeting is scheduled for the evening, start getting ready in the morning, take a bath, refresh your manicure and pedicure, think about your hair and makeup. You shouldn’t experiment with your appearance a couple of hours before the date; it’s better to do it in advance. Prepare your clothes and carefully consider accessories for them.

If you are going on a first date with a man, advice from a psychologist on choosing the right clothes will come in handy. Moreover, for this it is not necessary to make an appointment with a specialist; it will be enough to open any thematic magazine or communicate with a free Internet consultant.

When choosing a festive outfit, you should think, first of all, about where the event will take place - in a cafe, restaurant, theater, museum, square, forest or stadium.

Don't dress up too much for a trip to the forest or park. Otherwise, the meeting can turn into real torment, because you will not be thinking about the beauty of nature and your chosen one, but about how not to break your heel, and how to quietly straighten your skirt that has slipped to one side.

Hairstyle, like clothing, should match the image and location. Don't make your hairstyle too complicated or pour too much hairspray on your head. Try to look natural but well-groomed.

Being well-groomed and natural is what every man considers sexy. A woman, trying to impress on a first date, sometimes acts on the principle of “all the best at once,” so she often comes dressed in vulgar makeup, which only scares off a potential gentleman.

Arrive on time or be late?

Punctuality is a quality that is not inherent in every woman. When going to a romantic meeting, psychologists advise taking your time and being a little late. This should be done so as not to arrive first and thereby not embarrass the young man who kept you waiting. However, if you decide to be a little late, remember: you shouldn’t be more than ten minutes late. Otherwise, the gentleman may simply not wait for you. If a man comes in or picks you up at home, being late is out of the question.

What questions should you ask a man on the first date? Those that he can easily answer. For example:

If it turns out that your marital status does not bother you, and you do not aspire to a serious relationship, but only want entertainment, the advice of a professional will come in handy. How to behave if your first date is with a married man? Psychologist's advice:

• Do not demand a divorce from your chosen one and do not interfere in his family affairs. Listen carefully to everything he tells you about his wife, without expressing your opinion.
• Do not advertise your relationship with a married man, do not force him to take joint photos or attend social events with you.
• Don't be too pushy; let the young man choose the date and time of your next meeting.
• Don't ask for gifts or money. Otherwise, your chosen one will lose confidence in you.
• Do not forget that your chosen one is not free. You should not make serious plans for him, dreaming that one day you will take the place of his wife.

The most common mistakes on a first date with a man

If the evening is coming to an end and the date for the next meeting has not been set, this may mean that the man considers further acquaintance with you pointless.

Why did this happen? There may be several options:

Even though there won't be a sequel, keep your cool, say goodbye and thank you for the great time you had. Do everything to ensure that your meeting ends on a pleasant note.

When you are going on a first date with a man, the advice of a psychologist can be very useful, but you should not blindly believe books and specialists. Act as your heart tells you. Try to make a good impression on your partner so that he, without hesitation, invites you not only on a second, but also on a third date.

This exciting and pleasant event - a first date - often becomes a cause of serious anxiety for a girl. What to wear, what to talk about, how to behave? And these are just a few questions from a long list of experiences. To avoid unnecessary worries, let's deal with one of the most important issues - how to behave on a first date.

It depends on the guy

In many ways, a girl’s behavior on a first date depends on who exactly she is going to spend it with. Of course, there are recommendations that are relevant for any case, but the nuances depend on the situation. Here are several possible options for the mentioned situations that are important for constructing a girl’s line of behavior:

• The guy you're going on a date with knows you well. Perhaps you were previously connected by friendly relations or simple acquaintance. In this case, he has a completely formed opinion about the girl, you may have a lot of topics for conversation, and in the company of such a guy the girl feels freer.
• Communication between a guy and a girl continues for some time at a distance, for example on the Internet. They know quite a lot about each other, but have not met in person. In this case, they have an idea about each other’s views on life, interests and dreams, even appearance. But neither one nor the other could yet form a complete picture of their interlocutor.
• The guy and the girl are completely strangers to each other. For example, other people organized the date for them or it happened spontaneously. In this case, almost everything will depend on the first impression.
• The date takes place on the guy’s initiative; the girl agreed to it after much persuasion. At the same time, of course, both are at least familiar with each other, but there has never been any personal, much less romantic, communication between them.
• The opposite situation - the date was achieved/provoked by the girl. The guy did not show any interest or hid it, but the girl felt strong sympathy for him and eventually created the conditions under which a real romantic date took place.

Of course, in each individual case, the girl’s behavior may have significant differences. For example, in the latter case, when the guy did not plan any dates and actually turned out to be the driven party in this case, the girl must prepare very well in order to make the best impression. Once she has taken the initiative to organize a date, she should think through not only her own image, but also the surroundings of the event and topics for conversation. However, such situations do not occur very often.

If a girl has to go on a date with a person who is only partially known to her, remotely, then a slightly different approach is required. We are talking about personal acquaintance with a guy from the virtual space. Here it is important to pay maximum attention to two things - appearance (toilet, makeup, hairstyle, etc.) and manners.

To make it easier to cope with this task and not go too far, you need to try to imagine yourself through his eyes. Remember what and how you talked about, what phrases you used, what you told about yourself. After this, try to imagine what image he has of you. This is not as simple as it might seem at first glance, because your own subjective opinion about yourself will always interfere, but to achieve the best effect you need to try. Having imagined yourself through his eyes, as objectively as possible, try to bring your image into line with his ideas. Behave the way he expects you to.

If you and your boyfriend don’t know each other at all, then there are both pros and cons. A plus can be considered the opportunity to introduce yourself as anyone, choose the most unexpected line of behavior, surprise, make a guy fall in love with you, and in the worst case scenario, be remembered for a long time. The disadvantages include the lack of information about the young man, the likelihood of awkward silence, stiffness, embarrassment. But you need to take into account that he is in the same conditions and is probably also worried or embarrassed.

When a girl and a guy have known each other for a long time, even if not very closely, everything usually turns out much simpler. First of all, because in such cases the first date is set consciously, thought out in advance, and occurs because of mutual sympathy. A girl at such an event feels more free, although even here you can get into an awkward situation if you don’t take into account several rules that are relevant for any first date. These rules will be discussed a little later.

But even if the date takes place on the guy’s initiative, if the girl did not agree to it right away, and has no particular desire to go to this meeting, this does not mean at all that you can behave as you please. It is necessary to understand that a girl’s manners have consequences only for herself. And, which is completely logical, good manners have good consequences, and bad ones - vice versa. Therefore, it is necessary to show as much tact as possible so as not to put the young man in an awkward situation.

General rules for first dates

There are several rules, following which you can behave with dignity on a first date with any guy, both well acquainted and meeting for the first time. To remember them better, try trying each of them on yourself in advance. So:

• Be natural. If you are embarrassed, be embarrassed; if you find it funny, laugh; if you don’t know something, say so. This will help you avoid stupid situations. For example, you can directly tell the guy with a slight smile: “Forgive me for my awkwardness, I’m just really a little embarrassed - after all, it’s a real first date.” And it will immediately become easier, because you won’t have to pretend, the guy will immediately feel the need to protect you. If you don’t understand the topic he raised, say sincerely: “I don’t understand this at all, to be honest, please tell me.”
• Have a sense of tact. This is a very valuable quality, indicating good upbringing. If a guy finds himself in an awkward situation, pretend not to notice it (as much as possible), try to move the conversation to another topic or distract him when you feel that he is uncomfortable. Don't ask him for something that may be beyond his ability or means.
• Avoid vulgarity. In trying to be natural, it is necessary to respect the boundaries of what is reasonable. Laughing does not mean laughing out loud; being relaxed does not mean being cheeky. The same applies to appearance. Of course, when going on a date, a girl tries to improve her appearance, but this must be done in such a way that the degree of effort is not noticeable.
• Be generous. If a guy is worried, support him, smile, say something nice. When he jokes, even if it’s not very successful, smile at his joke, show interest in his story, let him court you. Understand that he is trying and, most likely, is also very worried.

When the date comes to an end, thank him for the pleasant time spent, say good night, offer to call/meet tomorrow or in the near future. In other words, this should be the end for today. It’s better to avoid jokes like “maybe you’ll stop by for a cup of tea”, “to you or to me”, “what kind of coffee do you prefer for breakfast”. Of course, this depends on the purpose of your date. If you want a serious relationship with this young man, then it is better to avoid such conversations.

It is necessary to form a complete feeling that your first date was intended to get to know the guy as a person, a possible loved one, or a soul mate. He must understand that you are primarily interested in his human qualities, that you are serious about choosing your chosen one, that close relationships and trust have yet to be earned.

This does not mean that he should be offended or humiliated by his arrogance. If you did everything right this evening, he himself will not allow himself ambiguous jokes or hints. If he nevertheless allows this to happen, you should not indignantly, with a feeling of “offended dignity,” exclaim something like “What are you allowing yourself to do?!” or “Who do you take me for?!” It’s better to say with a calm smile: “Please don’t spoil such a wonderful evening, I feel so good in my soul right now, let it be so.”

It would be quite appropriate to exchange messages after the first date, for example with the same good night wishes. It’s better not to bother the guy with frequent reminders of yourself, not to bombard him with messages, and not to call him every now and then after the first date. But when he calls or writes, let him know that you are happy about it. As a rule, after a successful first date, the second and third come very soon.

If something went wrong

Unfortunately, not all dates go according to a pre-planned plan. Not all of them are successful, and not all of them are worth remembering later. In order not to find herself in a difficult and unpleasant situation, the girl also needs to prepare. This is especially true in cases where you are going on a date with a guy you don’t know well. Although the tips below are quite applicable to many life situations. Here are a few rules that you should also keep in mind when going on a first date:

• Rely only on yourself. Wherever and whoever you go with, always provide for a scenario in which your companion will leave you alone. You may want to leave the date yourself, and there shouldn't be any complications.
• Don't make yourself completely dependent. You should have a way out of any situation the second you want it. Accordingly, do not go on a first date to places where you cannot get out on your own (outside the city, to unfamiliar places with limited access options).
• Do not tolerate if the situation takes an undesirable turn for you. If the guy did not live up to expectations, turned out to be rude, etc., say that you want to go home, your mood has worsened, and you do not intend to continue a date that does not bring you pleasure.

Even if you're going on a date with someone you know, it's best to keep the rules listed above in mind. In addition, you should always inform one of your friends or relatives about where and with whom you are going. And this is far from an empty precaution. You may never find yourself in an unpleasant situation, but it is better to be prepared for it and not get into it than to find yourself in a hopeless situation. Remember, sympathy may arise spontaneously, but trust is the result of consistent actions.

Surely every girl at least once in her life has experienced fear before an important event. A date with a man is one of these. Before the long-awaited meeting, beautiful ladies preen themselves in every possible way, select an outfit, and conduct supposed dialogues in their heads. This inadvertently raises the question of how to behave on a first date. What to talk about, whether to lay out your “ins and outs” and so on. Let's look at the main subtleties in order.

Preparing for a first date with a man

1. The first thing you need to worry about is what to wear. But don't expect the success of your date to depend solely on your wardrobe choices. A man will meet you by your outfit and guide you according to your mind.
2. Don't rush to the first beauty salon to have specialists dye your hair red and grow longer nails. If a potential boyfriend liked your look on the day you met, save it.
3. Be yourself, highlight your strengths and hide your weaknesses. If you want to prettify yourself, get a French manicure, renew your hair dye, and exfoliate to cleanse and smooth your skin.
4. Be sure to choose the appropriate wardrobe. A man will not like it if you look too vulgar and easily accessible. He will not think about the fact that he can marry this girl, but about sex scenes and the lack of prospects for the future.
5. Choose a dress just above the knee with a moderately revealing neckline. Or you can opt for trousers, pairing them with heels and a romantic shirt.
6. Don't try on someone else's role. If you are not used to walking in high heels, your face will soon take on a pained expression. Better wear comfortable flat sandals to be prepared for any changes in your plan.
7. Psychologists agreed that it is impossible to beat a first date with the same person. You may not agree with this, but try to do everything right from the beginning.
8. A spark often runs between adults during their first solitude. Be prepared for anything. Epilate your legs and bikini area, moisturize your body with lotion, buy beautiful underwear, stockings and garters.

Where to go on a first date with a man

1. Often, when a man invites a woman on a date, he chooses the venue (or several locations) himself. But if you agree that the choice is yours, follow these simple tips.
2. If a man invites you to sit in a cafe in sunny weather, you can protest by providing an option in return. For example, say you want to have a picnic or go on a boat ride.
3. A great pastime can be riding a bicycle, roller skates, motorcycle, convertible, ATV and even hoverboard.
4. In cases where a guy with brightly shining eyes invites you to dinner at a place that you don’t like, don’t rush to refuse him. Make a compromise, choose a cozy table and create a romantic atmosphere.
5. You can also have a good time on a date outside the city. Rent a gazebo in a special complex, swim on catamarans, barbecue, and in the evening upon arrival, freshen up at home and go on a date again, but this time to the cinema.

What to talk about on a first date with a man

1. During a conversation, look into the young man's eyes, do not look away and do not run your eyes left and right. If a man looks at you with obvious interest, this is an extremely good sign.
2. Even if you like to chat non-stop, don't do it. This kind of behavior looks ridiculous. In addition, in confusion, you can say stupid things that you want to say in the future.
3. Girls are fond of soap operas and various tearful TV series, so they discuss them with pleasure. Avoid this topic of conversation so that the man does not take you for a fool. Better discuss interesting films with meaning.
4. Never interrupt the gentleman, let him finish his speech. Learn to maintain a conversation on any topic, even if the conversation turns to politics, oil rigs or traditional medicine. Be an interesting opponent.
5. Don’t try to tell everything about yourself at once, let such little things reveal themselves gradually in the process of further communication. If a man finds out all your “ins and outs,” he will simply become uninterested.
6. Ask about a man's successes and achievements, but do not openly flatter him. Give a few veiled compliments regarding professional and personal qualities to make him feel like a male.
7. Real men are interested in independent and, no less important, self-sufficient women. Be like that. Needless to say, you are sitting on your parents’ neck and having difficulty making ends meet.
8. Do not whine under any circumstances; you should not complain about life. Pessimistic women have virtually no chance of winning a man on a date. He will run away from you at the first opportunity.
9. Stay positive and try to make the date go smoothly. Don't interrogate him, take a veiled interest in his life. There is no need to bring up the topic of ex-girlfriends or the state of your bank account.
10. Conquer your gentleman with your sincerity and ease. A man must be interested in you. Behave with dignity and a little mysteriously, do not reveal all your cards, even if the man insists. But it’s also wrong to build touch-me-nots; everything should be in moderation.

Sincerity

1. Remember, when going on a first date, you need to discard all negative thoughts and pressing problems.
2. On such an important day, you need to be yourself; you shouldn’t bring negativity and workload to the meeting. Get maximum pleasure from your date, experience the joy of meeting.
3. Have a nice time, enjoy communication. This way a man will see lightness and cheerfulness in you. The consequences of such behavior will be an inevitable second date. The main thing is not to play, but to really be sincere.

Manners and politeness

1. Representatives of the fair sex tend to be late for dates. In this case, you should understand that you should not stay for more than a quarter of an hour. If you are really late for a meeting for any reason, be sure to warn your chosen one.
2. All you have to do is make a call or write a message. This way you will show the man that you care about him and are worried. The gentleman, in turn, will treat you with more respect. When arriving at a meeting, it is recommended to turn off your phone so that the gadget does not interrupt your date.
3. If you have turned off the sound, do not rush to your phone to see who is texting or calling you. Notice if the man did the same. If his phone is ruining a date, consider whether it's worth continuing. A well-mannered gentleman would never allow this to happen.
4. You can do it another way: come to an agreement right away and put your phones aside. Answer calls only when necessary. Always thank the man for the attention and politeness shown to you. If the gentleman took off your coat or opened the door or ordered coffee, thank him.
5. In this case, the man will understand that it is not in vain that he shows his good manners and respect for the woman. As a result, signs of attention will become more frequent. In particular, you need to learn how to respond correctly to a boyfriend’s compliments. You can say something nice in response.

Talking about exes

1. It’s worth noting right away that such topics are unacceptable not only on the first date, but also in the future. At your first meeting, you should already have a lot of topics to get to know each other. If a man asks a question about his past personal life, answer simply and briefly. Don't pile on to him about unhappy relationships and love.
2. Try to move the conversation to a new topic, do not ask counter questions. If a man insists on talking, tell him that this is personal information that should not concern him in any way. Otherwise, end the date without any follow-up. You have a new life.
3. Don't make yourself a victim and don't say that all your ex-men are bad. Such information should not come out of your mouth at all. Also pay attention to the gentleman's conversations. He shouldn't talk about himself like that. A self-respecting man will not ask you such a question and will not tell you about himself.

Sex

1. On the first date, there should be no hint that you are sexually available. The man will take advantage of you, there will definitely not be a second date. Don't behave like a courtesan, have dignity. There are plenty of girls of easy virtue. If a man comes on a date, it means he is looking for a serious relationship.
2. Don’t be of the opinion that if a man took you to an expensive restaurant and the evening was just great, you owe him something. Explain that they didn’t ask for this, and it was more important for you to get to know him as a person. If a gentleman spent a lot of money to impress you, he can afford this.
3. Respect yourself and the man’s choice, be a worthy woman whom he called on a date. You have no price, you are not a commodity. If you refused intimate relations on the first evening, and the man did not invite you on the next date, rejoice. You definitely don’t need such a gentleman. It is important to understand that you cannot build normal relationships with such suitors.
4. Well-mannered men prefer women with dignity and a framework of honor. First of all, learn to respect yourself. In this way, you will test the man’s endurance, whether he really wants a serious relationship with you.

Payment for the restaurant

1. When a man and a woman go to a restaurant, the one who invited them to the establishment pays the check. However, if you offer to split the amount between two, the man will take such a statement responsibly.
2. In the first case, he will consider you a serious lady who does not want to be a freeloader. In the second, he will become indignant because he can’t figure out how a woman will pay on a date that he arranged.
3. If the gentleman is a gentleman, he will brush aside your proposal, and rightly so. A real man will not allow a lady to pay for himself. Moreover, such a proposal would offend him.

Prepare for your first date. Visit the hairdresser in advance and update your hair color, get a neat manicure, and tidy up your body. Choose a place to spend time together or let your man do it. Learn the guidelines on what not to say on a date. Be yourself!

Video: First date - how to behave and what to talk about?

Doing something for the first time is hard: taking an exam or going to work. But this is nothing compared to the emotions you experience when going on a date. All girls and boys are terribly nervous before their first meeting. We couldn’t ignore such a troubling topic and decided to give you tips on how to behave on a first date.

How should a girl behave on a first date?

Let's start with the girls, but for them this is a more exciting event:

• To begin with I would like to say that don't be late. Although it is believed that a girl should do this, it is better to arrive on time. After all, your new acquaintance is the same person, he was preparing for the meeting, but now he is nervous and waiting. Why make him worry again?
• Further it should be noted that Don't be too shy and withdrawn. It is very difficult to be open and frank now. But excessive constraint is sometimes repulsive. You cannot say a word, you turn your gaze away and fall into a stupor - he will simply become bored;
• Pay special attention manners. When communicating, watch your facial expressions and body movements. Laughing too loudly in response to his jokes or his proud chin stretched forward are repulsive. A modest smile and open interest in the eyes always touched the guys to the quick.

This is about behavior. But often girls are more concerned about how to look at the first rendezvous. We will write about this below.

Clothing for a girl's date: what's best to wear?

Girls, having received an invitation, begin to think about what to choose from clothes and what hairstyle to do. Opening the closet, they frantically sort through things, believing that the success of the meeting will depend on this. Dozens of layers of varnish and makeup are applied to all possible surfaces of the skin. But perhaps this shouldn't be done.

Of course, you need to be well-groomed and combed, you can wear a beautiful dress, but don’t overdo it. Try to be yourself, because then he will have to see you without pasted eyelashes and false nails. So, of course, prepare yourself, but don’t forget, what is more important to make a spiritual impression, find common ground rather than just throwing dust in the eyes.

In addition, naturalness is in fashion today. If you want to look neat, it is enough to apply discreet makeup that hides minor facial defects and style your hair so that it emphasizes your strengths or hides your flaws.

Simple dresses and skirts, tight jeans and low heels always go with a bang. This image seems to tell a man: “I have nothing to hide, it will be easy and interesting with me.”

Should you kiss and when?

And of course, the most exciting moment is kiss. Girls and guys are anxiously wondering how this will happen and when?

There are no obligations in this matter. Even if the guy treated you generously in a cafe, took you to the cinema and walked you home, you can simply say goodbye in words.

It's another matter when you like this man so much that you feel the need to touch him. Of course, you shouldn’t attack, but you can give a hint:

• Make eye contact when communicating. If you turn away, he will decide that you are not interested in him;
• Break the touch barrier - lightly touch your shoulder or arm at the right moment. Movements should be light, unobtrusive, but telling;
• Take a look at his lips. Do not look closely, of course, but occasionally lower your eyes to them.

Or act decisively - just ask for a kiss. In general, everything is in your hands, if you want to kiss, kiss, if not, put it off until better times.

How to behave after the first date?

In fact, it’s not the date itself that’s scary, but what happens next. You will return home and begin to analyze what happened and understand your emotions. However, do not rush to draw conclusions; in a few hours of communication it is impossible to get to know a person well. Maybe he behaved wrong, spoke nonsense.

Still, remember that he was worried too. That's why:

• Don't attach much importance to little things - how he was dressed, what flowers he brought or didn't bring. The main thing is how you felt, whether it was interesting and exciting;
• But refuse to meet if he gave alarming signals - he was rude, behaved vulgarly and allowed unnecessary things.

How should you behave if you like him? Like that:

• Send him a message before bed: “ Thank you, I had a great evening!»;
• Don't wait for him to invite you again, call him yourself, offer to go for a walk.

But alas, things don’t always turn out the way you want. If the guy has not experienced the same feelings, accept it with dignity. Don't call him, don't look for meetings. If he doesn’t want to, communicate with others, look for your soul mate.

How should a man behave on a first date?

It is also difficult for young people to meet a girl. They preen and worry no less. But the main rule is the same for everyone - remain yourself, and there are also a few tips:

1. Take all the initiative. Women like someone who is confident and decisive. Therefore, choose where the date will take place and other nuances. And let her determine the time;
2. Don't forget your manners. If you know about your shortcomings, for example, you can skip a rude word - get rid of them;
3. According to statistics, most ladies prefer guys who are, of course, financially successful. But these same data confirm that sense of humor is more important. A man who can easily make you laugh and cheer up leaves your competitors behind.

As for - there are no rules. If you want to add romance to the atmosphere, buy a bouquet. And you don’t necessarily need gorgeous flowers in huge quantities. It’s better to surprise the woman you like with simplicity, give daisies or sunflowers. They can now be bought in flower shops.

What mistakes should you avoid?

Below we want to list common mistakes that everyone should avoid. Thanks to these little things, many couples have already failed:

• Don't be late. This is especially true when starting a relationship;
• Don't talk about previous partners. Don't talk about this topic at all unless asked. And if they ask, try to change the conversation. Such conversations usually do not lead to anything good;
• Put your phone down and turn off the sound on it. Show respect, show how important the person is to you;
• Don't overdo it with alcohol. Yes, maybe a glass of wine will help relieve stress. But it’s better to have a fresh head and behave appropriately;
• Don't be smart. It is interesting to spend time with an erudite person. But no one likes it when this person overexposes his intellectual abilities. Be an interesting and simple conversationalist.

Agree, if, when you were nearby, your partner constantly called on the phone or got drunk, you would not like it. So behave the way you want to be treated. It's simple.

So, what conclusions can be drawn when thinking about how to behave on a first date? Everything is elementary - don’t make hasty conclusions, behave as naturally as possible and respect the person next to you. The rest are minor things that can be fixed.

Video lesson: going on a first date

In this video, psychologist Leonid Paranin will tell you how to lead a girl and a guy on the very first date, what mistakes should not be made: